
“If you’ll live like no one else, then later you can live like no one else.“
~ Dave Ramsey ~
“Because you people are so arrogant. You think you have all the answers.”
When I saw this week’s quote, I was reminded of a conversation I had some years back with a friend who was, and is, an agnostic. He remains skeptical about the existence of the Divine Creator, but does not profess true atheism. Rather, he considers himself a questioner, perpetually searching for truth.
The Bible verse that invoked such a vehement response was John 14:6: “Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.”
“See? That’s arrogant,” my friend argued. “You think there’s only one way to live, one way to achieve peace, one road that leads to heaven. That’s just over-bearing. What about all the people on this planet who believe differently? What about them?”
In my youthful naïveté and enthusiasm, I continued trying to convince my friend until we agreed that, for the sake of our friendship, we would table the discussion, agreeing to disagree.
It was a conversation that virtually every believer will will at some point in his/her life. I believe that how we react to our friends’ skepticism and what we do after the discussion ends speaks volumes about our humanity and reveals whether or not we are appropriate ambassadors to the world of nonbelievers.
Biblical scholars note that it is in the Gospel of John that Jesus reveals his true nature and identity through seven “I am” statements. Jesus is described therein as the bread of life, light of the world, good shepherd, door, resurrection and life (when he raises Lazarus from the dead in Chapter 11) true vine, and, of course, the way, the truth, and the life. John speaks of “the Word,” meaning Jesus. In the book of John, Jesus reveals to the world and, in fact, is, the divine wisdom, blueprint, and plan for the world. Jesus is the incarnation of the Divine Creator.
The messages contained in the book of John reveal that this week’s quote is accurate: Believers live different lives than nonbelievers with the confidence that they will live for all of eternity. John 14:6 is the summation of Christian belief.
However, the concepts set forth in the Book of John are mysterious and difficult for long-time believers to grasp, worthy of a lifetime of study. More importantly, no one can convince another person of the truth. It is something that every individual must find for him/herself in his/her own time. We cannot force another person to believe what we believe — on any subject. We can only provide the information and allow them to review, consider, analyze and, ultimately, accept or reject it.
In verse 11, Jesus also told the Disciples “I am in my Father and my Father is in me” and promised them in verse 17 that the Spirit of truth would dwell with them always.
Thus, after providing nonbelievers with information about our faith, the best thing we can do is realize that berating them is pointless. After all, they must come to their own understanding that the Divine Creator resides in all of us and all of us are the Divine Creator. We are one because we are Divine creations ourselves, formed in the Creator’s image. Each individual must conceptualize that basic tenet and internalize it in a way that is meaningful to him/her. It is a process that cannot be forced or compelled.
Rather than talking incessantly to our friends about what we believe, in an ongoing effort to convince them of the correctness of our viewpoint, the most loving and productive thing we can do is invoke the Spirit of truth in their lives, asking it to provide them guidance, understanding, and acceptance in the same way that we seek daily assistance from the Spirit in our journey.
My friend was right. My approach all those years ago was, in hindsight, arrogant. I was well-intentioned, but overbearingly enthusiastic in my desire to share my own joy with him and see him enjoying my definition of happiness. It was also arrogant of me to think that I could convey a message so powerfully that he would immediately see the truth of my words and believe as I do. It is a mistake many Christians make.
Rather, in the years since and on an ongoing basis, I have simply prayed for him regularly, confident that the Spirit of truth is ever-present and working in his life — and mine. What separates us is the name and glory that I give that invisible, but omnipresent force, but I remain eternally hopeful that we will one day be united not only in friendship, but also belief.
Thanks go to Amy at In Pursuit of Proverbs 31 for hosting this week! Drop by and read the other participants’ discussion of this week’s quote.








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I love the “I am” statements Jesus made. Plain and simple we need to believe, having faith in the one behind those statements to live as we should live. Thanks.
God bless you for a wonderful and thought provoking post!!
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Great Post…. will thinking on it a while.
Great post. Will be thinking about it a good while.
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A very truthful post.
We often forget how hard it is to see in the darkness. We can share our faith but we can’t beat it into anyone. If we love them, maybe they’ll be encouraged to follow the Spirit to the light.
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Wonderful post sweetie.
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Well done. You shared deep and timeless truth that every believer would do well to embrace. We must come away from the idea that evangelism is about the prayer. Evangelism is about planting the seed. The Word tells us if Jesus be lifted up He will draw all men unto Himself. I have adopted a series of questions that help me to know if the Spirit is at work. I ask them about their beliefs about heaven and salvation. When we are through I ask them, “If you were wrong, would you want to know?” If they say, “Yes.” We proceed to sharing the gospel and my testimony. If they say, “No.” I thank them for their time and move ahead. It takes the burden off of me and it also frees me up to be relaxed and conversational in my approach. Thanks for sharing and reminding us of this very important aspect of making disciples… You are a blessing indeed.
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Ryt, no one can force anyone to believe in anything. There’s such a thing we call “free will”. God has endowed us with free will. He doesn’t force us to follow and worship Him. God loves us so much that he doesn’t interfere with our decisions. He let’s us choose for ourselves. If He were to force anyone into loving Him, then that so-called ‘love’ isn’t love anymore. It’s called slavery. He won’t impose Himself on anyone because He respects everyone’s freedom to choose. If God is like this then how much more should we be like this? All we have to do is listen, not just hear, and follow in Jesus’ footsteps and not just imitate. Very simple, He said to love God with all our hearts, minds, and entire being and love our neighbors as we love ourselves. He made it clear that this is what we should do first. So if we wanna try to give other people God, we should first be lovers of God ourselves. We cannot possibly give to others what we don’t have. If we are able love God then eventually this love will naturally spread to everyone else. What we can do is plant a seed of love in other people’s hearts and it is up to them to water it and let it grow and sometime in the future, depending on their sincerity, their love will grow naturally. Nothing was forced on them.
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