Do Your Best

September 22, 2008

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“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”

Colossians 3:23-24

How would your life look differently if you embraced and believed fully what the verse in Colossians states? If the truth above is something you already believe and actively live out, how does this truth make a difference in your life?

“Do your best.”

That was all my parents ever asked of me. Year after year, as I advanced grade levels . . . all the way through college, those were the words I heard countless times:  “We will always be proud of you if you just do your best.”

Of course, my parents were extremely intelligent and wise individuals.  They knew that I was capable of doing very well no matter what task I was focused upon if; I made an adequate effort. So my parents knew exactly how to exert just the right amount of pressure while subtly teaching me about responsibility.

They knew, of course, that by requesting me to do my best, they were instilling in me a clear sense of accountability and self-reliance.  The times that I failed, I could blame no one else.  I knew that I fell short of my goal because I failed to deliver my best effort on a consistent basis.

The Divine Creator asks the same of us, so this is yet another example of the wonderful way in which my Christian parents lived our their faith in a quietly dignified manner.  They didn’t pound me over the head with the Bible — literally or figuratively — or yell Scripture at me during every conversation.  They didn’t haul me off to the pastor’s office to be counseled on the rare occasion that I fell short of the mark.

Instead, they did exactly what the Divine Creator has done with humanity:  Provided the tools, instructions, and inspiration — and then allowed us to take it from there, awaiting the results and standing ready to repeat the process as many times as necessary in order to assure our success.

We have been given free will, a tremendously important centerpiece of our belief system.  It is up to us to make the most of that gift.  That is why we have also been given intellect — in order that we might analyze, contemplate, evaluate, and ultimately exercise our free will by making choices.  Like our parents, the Divine Creator hopes that we will make good choices.  Productive choices.  Healthy choices.  Kind choices.  The list goes on . . . each day of our life is comprised of a series of choices, some about the minuscule details of our daily journey and some monumental that impact our very destinies.  As to all of those choices, we should work at making them with all of our heart, always mindful of the value of the gift of free will.  Always mindful of the ultimate sacrifice that secured the gift for us and assures us that, when we fail, we will be unconditionally forgiven, bathed in healing love, and given the opportunity to try as many additional times as is necessary in order to succeed.

I believe that, even though we may not always have the language of Colossians at the forefront of our consciousness, that verse — and so many others like it — is ingrained in our subconscious minds and informs our efforts throughout each and every day.  As Christians, we have a foundational set of principles that fuel us, even when we are not actively contemplating them.  I think of my core beliefs as my “code of conduct” from which I do not veer even though I may not be actually thinking about that code or making choices by literally asking myself, “If I do X instead of Y, will that be consistent with my Christian beliefs?”  Realistically, life moves too quickly to make that overt practice a reality at all times.

Rather, doing my best because of my beliefs became, over time, a “way of life.”  That does not mean that I always make the best choices.  But it does mean that when I don’t and have to regroup, refocus, and try again, I always do so with a firm faith foundation, confident in the knowledge that I am forgiven for my failures.

And every time I do not achieve my goals, I again hear my parents’ voices echoing in my head:  “Do your best.” No one, not even the Divine Creator, could ever ask more of me.


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{ 9 comments… read them below or add one }

Liara Covert 09.24.08 at 3:52 am

Every human being may evolve to learn a sense of success is felt inside anytime, anywhere. You are already doing your best, even if you do not realize it yet.

Jagad Guru 09.25.08 at 2:12 am

This Colossians verse is so nice. It reminds us on what our true purpose in life is. We naturally serve. Whatever our position or situation may be, we ae always serving. It is our nature to render service. Even the President of the country or some big dude on the highest rank is still serving the people under him. However, if we just serve and serve just for anyone, we will notice that we are not happy. Yes we do experience some happiness and satisfaction from helping, serving others. But in the end, there is still something missing. That is because we neglected to serve the Lord Who is worthy of all respect, worship and our unconditional love just as He unconditionally loves us. Simply speaking, whatever we do should be done in service for the Lord and in that way we can actually taste the nectar of the sweetest love which He freely gives everyone. By knowing that our actions should be for the pleasure of God, we can also know what and what not we should be doing. Generally, this should be a guiding point for everyone. Go back to the basics and that is to simply love God.

RFP Template 09.26.08 at 12:23 am

Good article i like it vey much after reading it

Timmy 09.26.08 at 7:20 am

Listening to my parents’ voices in my head has always guided me in the right direction as well.

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James Andrew 10.03.08 at 12:27 am

Thanks for that very great and inspiring thought! I guess, no matter how many times we fail and stumble down, we still got one person and Him our creator. We still continue doing our best to achieve goals/dreams in life. :)

Viola Jaynes 10.03.08 at 4:27 am

Great post! I am glad you had them in your life and that their influence on you was so positive.

Hopeful Spirit, I am wanting to spread the word about the Statue of Responsibility that is underway. I have a YouTube clip on my site if you care to watch it. I would like all my blogger friends to become aware of it and possible spread the word. This project inspires me.

Beth 10.04.08 at 3:34 am

I wanted to stop by for a visit and thank you for stopping by to visit me!

My parents also instilled the “do your best” into my childhood. And, this has carried with me into my adult life. Most of the time, when I knew I could have done better, they knew it, too. If I came home with a test that was “below the mark”, they would just ask me, “Is this your best?” No condemnation, just that simple question. If I could answer truthfully, that “Yes, this is it, my best” than that was all there was.

But, many times, inside, I knew that I could have done better and just didn’t.

God only asks of us what He knows we can handle, what we can achieve at our best for Him. If He asks something of us–even if it seems like something out of comfort zone, know that He will be behind us–providing with the know how, the strength and the tenacity to carry it through.

My own children (3 of them–all grown up now) are nonbelievers. I don’t quote scripture to them or bash them over the head insisting that they believe the same as I do. Instead, I live my life with Jesus’ shining light–knowing they have seen the changes in me. God will lead them to follow Him in His way, in His time.

Beth

itot 10.06.08 at 2:58 pm

this is an inspiring post. thanks!

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David - Chicago 10.12.08 at 10:21 am

I’ve run across a number of religious blogs, this is the first once that feels explanatory and influencing of views rather than absolute in nature.

Keep up the good blogging!

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